THINGS YOU MUST KNOW BEFORE YOU SAY I DO- How to avoid Emotional Affair and how to recognize fake suitors

THINGS YOU MUST KNOW BEFORE YOU SAY I DO.

1. Marriage is a JOURNEY and not a COMPETITION. Don’t marry to show off or prove a point but marry to fulfill purpose.

Singleness is not a curse but a phase. Therefore,don’t marry out of pressure. Don’t marry because all your mates are married and you’re the only single remaining. Life is a journey and it’s turn by turn. Wait for your turn and you will be happy.

HOW TO AVOID EMOTIONAL AFFAIR

Even if you are married to the best spouse in the whole world,
if you do not guard your heart, you may end up “falling in love”
with someone aside your spouse and eventually ruin your
marriage.
No one gets married and plans to have affair but lots of
married men and women are into affairs today because they
slept when they should have been wide awake with their five
senses alert.

*1*. Don’t be too friendly with the opposite sex.
This is where lots of married people land in trouble.

Set boundaries.
Be disciplined.
Be cordial.
Be respectful.
Be godly.
Be holy.

*2*. Don’t share your personal problems with an opposite sex
friend.
It will bond you together. Problems bond people.

*3*. Don’t contact any opposite sex you are fond of.
If you secretly admire them, you are fond of them and there is a
tingling in your heart at the mere thought of them, don’t
contact!

*4*. Avoid unnecessary eye contact that lingers with the
opposite sex.

*5*. Don’t tell an opposite sex you are romantic or sexy.
That private information is for your spouse only.

*6*. Avoid discussions with the opposite sex when you are tired,
very sad, depressed, sorrowful, drowsy, sleepy or very sick.
This can cloud your judgment and make you say silly things.
Talk to your husband/wife instead.